Second, if you know someone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community then definitely talk to them about how they came out. First, don’t come out if you are feeling angry or during an argument, pick a time where everyone(including who ever you want to come out with) is relaxed. ReplyĬoming out is hard, but here’s my advice. Obviously I know ultimately the only person who can answer these questions is my self, but any help would be appreciated. As you can see I have much turmoil over this. But then some days I feel like I’m only attracted to more masculine females and I only think I’m attracted to guys because society has told me I have to be. Can I still identify as bisexual if I’m mainly attracted to masculine personalities/how someone dresses? Or should I just identify as queer? I don’t feel that queer is right though, I feel like for my own personal confidence I would want a more definitive label (not that queer isn’t definitive for other people, in my mind bisexual is just more clear to me) so I feel like bisexual would be better. I put this in the quiz and it came back gay/queer. I find that I’m attracted to both genders so I identify as bisexual (in a cisgender female) but I also know I’m mainly attracted to masculine people (men and women, it doesn’t matter) I’m not as attracted to feminine people. I’d like to be in a relationship with a girl but it feels strange to think about it) and boys in skirts (or any other gender in skirts)Īnd… how do I know that I like all genders when I don’t know all genders? Reply it’s super nice but it feels strange to think about it.
Omnis can have preferences right? Can they have or does every omnisexual person has a preference?įirst I had girls as a preference but now…Īll I can think about are girls (but not in a relationship. The difference between Omni and pan is that pan people don’t notice gender (?) and omnis do ? I think that would help me better than just imagine things I want to fall in love with the same gender cause I only fell in love with boys yet I mean I’d like a boy or girlfriend who has a good character and so on but also looks good…Īnd btw I am just questioning myself right now. I feel like pan but in my head is just omnisexualīut isn’t it Normal or care about the personality too?